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Why healing your inner child didn't gave you visible proof, just yet:


We’ve collectively started doing the work like feeling, embracing, hearing and seeing our inner child. And rightly so. It’s an essential part of who we are. Many practices and techniques have emerged and are now used worldwide, because we all know: the wounded inner child deserves attention, support, and healing.


Still, when the inner child shows up during a session, it’s often not happy.“How is that possible? I’ve done so much work already!”, is a phrase I’ve heard many times in my practice. And yes, I believe you(!). But besides hearing, seeing and feeling… were you also able to release the underlying pain? Have you truly understood why your inner child stored that experience as trauma or pain in the first place?

Don’t get me wrong — it’s incredibly brave that you’ve turned inward. That you’ve read, explored, and started the healing work. You’ve taken the first step, but now it’s time to go all the way.


In the past four years as an energy practitioner, I’ve seen that the wounded inner child often doesn’t just want to be seen, felt or heard, it wants to be understood. Because the current situation feels safe.

Hidden behind internal walls of discomfort and disconnected from the true self, your inner child remains in a safe space. And breaking through that is no easy task. Plus, the life you’re living now isn’t the only life in which your wounded inner child has built walls. These internal walls were formed over eons of soul experience.


Until about the age of seven, a child has no real concept of an external world. There is only the inner experience. You had your parents, maybe siblings, but they could only confirm fragments of what was happening inside you. The rest you experienced on your own. And that creates an inner struggle between your perception and the validation you received from others. In that early stage of life, we were learning, and in that learning we were taught to rely on the world outside ourselves. That’s why much of our inner experience was paused, stored away… for later. Temporarily. Until we could handle it. And so, the wall began to build.




This wall disrupts the energetic flow in our field. It becomes a blockage, and when ignored for too long, it can even lead to illness.

But that wall had a purpose. It protected you from a part of yourself you weren’t ready to face in the moment. Which is fine, íf you return to it later. But most of us never do. We forget. And the longer the wall remains, the more it feels like a safe haven while in reality, it creates a deeper disconnection from yourself.


If you are wondering right now: “If it’s all so complex, why would we even want to go there? What’s the point of dressing all those things?” Because when you succeed in freeing your inner child, you free yourself.


It may sound cliché, but it’s true: when the inner child heals, your life begins to flow again. Even more: your inner child is wise.When healed and liberated, it becomes your guide, helping you navigate this life.Your inner guidance comes from your healed inner child.


Wherever you are in your journey, whether you’re just beginning or have already done deep work you’re welcome to book a session and (continue to) work on this part of yourself. Together, we gently break down the walls and let your inner child finally feel happy and alive again.


 
 
 

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